Espresso for a Woman's spirit

A lot of talk has been swirling around about a recent weekend sermon.. To cut a long story short, we are admonished to be less picky about out life partners. Side one argument - but the men are not initiating Side two argument - the women are too picky Actually I think the actual argument is.. do I be content in my singleness and wait for THE ONE or do I feel restless and go and look for someone. This applies to both men and women actually.. but of course the bulk of the burden is on the men cos if the men initiated, then there would be less necessity for the women to put themselves in a postition to "look" but either way, I think at a point of time, we all get " lazy" - the sin of sloth.. The question then is what do we do with our time and energies while we wait .. do we use our time to serve the Lord or do we use the time to look or do we use the time to enjoy ourselves.. I guess the wise answer is all 3 .. the question is how much of e...

It's been an exhilarating journey with God in the past few weeks. As someone told me " time spent with God is never wasted"  Allowing God to water the dry heart.. Cos he is the source of living water. John 3, the woman comes looking for water and finds the real source of living water. That we will all draw on our source. Reminders that my gift from God is my nuturing spirit and my availability. And that while taking into account my short comings for which I am thankful for friends pointing it out, I pray that I will rise above that and harnest this spirit to extend His Kingdom.  To enjoy the fruit of the Spirit just as I enjoy the beautiful custard apples bought with love and brought back with love. To revel in the Love of the giver of the Spirit. To remind me to be like the swans that drift peacefully along. Because if I know that God is in control, then I can be as serene and peaceful as the swans. "For I know the plans I have for you, declar...

" My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness" 2 Cor 12:9  the words of the Lord through Paul Was reflecting on this after a chat with friends lamenting on the environment of medical training and working in Singapore. Seems like when doctors talk ( in Singapore especially ) there is a whole bucket of grouses.. perhaps it's just the way we are, perhaps the situation is really that bad. Of which, I am probable one of the worse.. as told by a colleague sometime ago " can you stop complaining about everything! "  I'm better now but  no where near perfection (* repent*) These are my thoughts of christianity in medicine Was just thinking about medicine and how those of us who are still walking the straight and narrow path in obedience and service to our Lord are only here by God's grace. The calls, the stress, the studying, the work all takes it's toll on us. I have seen so many fall by the side, some even denouncing the...

Have been recently more introspective. For many many years, I have been so busy that I have ignored what I might have done to the people around me, how my actions may have impacted the people around me. Then recently, due to the break, I have suddenly come to appreciate what my actions might mean to the people around me. To cancel on others, to treat people as if they were unimportant; that I was more important cos I was so busy and I was trying to squeeze them into my life... Of course I understand that being busy, that might have truly been the case but there are better ways of doing things.. better ways of showing that you are other person centred.. Not paralysed by fear of what you do or say but being assisted by the spirit to tell us how to act. Now, being on the receiving end, it is just no fun.. it is very self-depreciating.. And the non other person centre way is to react which is my first reaction however reacting just self pepetuates this. And I am grateful to the friends who...

Listening to Jeremy Lin's interview on Good tv really reminded me of my own journey this year. It is a reminder that our spiritual journey is the same regardless of who we are, which field we are in, how old we are. Similar reminders from his interview.. How we are always affected by the things that happen in our lives.. like he says when he plays well, he is happy but when he doesn't play well, he is angry and gets upset.. Similarly, how can we be so influenced by the things around us.. tossed about by the waves.. we should have our anchor in God and only in submitting to Him, we do not let the "fear of failure" control us, and only then can we get the ultimate joy and peace that He promises. And very realistically, he also says that he will be struggling with this till he finishes playing..Instead of winning the game, being a " reflection of God's image in the way I treat people " Also, his questioning of why God has let him be in this place ...

Do we do things out of sensitivity, sentimentality or the force of "should"? Was recently considering this when the 2 words sensitivity and sentimentality came up in a sentence that a friend said to me. She was considering what would be sensitive to be on V day and was asking whether she was oversensitive however she says she is definitely not sentimental- point in note, she would have liked to get me flowers but she doesn't really like them herself..  Thinking of that, brought me to thinking of male-female gender roles. We always think that women are more sentimental than men but recently I have discovered that actually some men are much more sentimental than women.. holding onto old experiences that they enjoyed for a much longer time than women. Perhaps, it's the practicality in women which says.. I can always find similar feelings and quite easily.  Women however are definitely more sensitive than men in general. They have a tendency to be sensitive ...

You are Loved God's love is different from ours God doesn't just give love - He Is LOVE We are experts at earning the affections of friends, lovers, children and our families. Coming face-to -face with a God who loves us unconditionally sets us off balance. It's much easier to believe, " If I go to church and read my Bible, God will love me." That makes us feel safe because it seems we can control God's love. It's scary to believe in God's conditional love. What if it's not true? then the deepest desire of our hearts can never be a reality. We watch Cinderella and the prince then hope for our own version of living happily ever after. But life disappoints us, and God is our last chance to be fully, deeply loved. So we do everything possible to please Him because even though we've endured many rejections, His would be unbearable. But God is whispering the words to our hearts we long to hear if only we can dare to believe them: " You are lo...