Bring my broken pieces to Him

Today i have been reflecting on broken relationships. Yes, actually i have been reflecting for a long time already. only today it's more objective rather than subjective.
I visited a friend who just had an operation. We had lunch with her and her husband and the topic of divorce came up. Apparently during their courtship, they had broken up for a month. During which period of time she had been unable to accept it and kept calling him and was told "i don't love u anymore" (sounds familiar??) He says, " you can still remember it after so long?" (they have been married for 5 years) She says " it hurt so bad that i can't forget it. "
which struck me cos even though they are happily married with 2 kids now, she still can't forget the hurt so how much more the hurt when a relationship with someone you love is broken.
i sometimes feel the hurt too much to bear, but when i think about it logically, i have replaced that relationship with the love of many friends; so many people who have supported and loved me and were just with me through this difficult time. Giving up 1 person for some many people - sounds mathematically better. Cos this is after going thro a long heartache.
to my friends .... thank you. you know who you are.
Another thought. Suffering the broken relationship reminds me of our broken relationship with God and even more i want to mend this relationship.

My prayer today is that God will heal and help open my eyes to the blessings around me.

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